Aura of Valentine week had infected me too, a little! :P Like how air is majorly composed of nitrogen and oxygen, love is infused with warmth affection and possessiveness. Love/possessiveness is something more than what is pertained to a girl-boy thing.
"I have always been a little possessive person, i used to hate myself for being like that until i saw that emotion coming out of a kid.
My nephew was hardly 2 years old when it happened. At times he used to beat/bite me for no reason and most times I used to irritate him for no reason. It always is a love-hate relationship between both of us. I was at his home, working something on my laptop and my mom was feeding me. In similar fashion, my sister was feeding my nephew. He was giving a constant gaze at me though i wasn't understanding what wrong i did do to deserve that look. For a moment, my mom moved away from her place to get another dosa. Once she made her way out, he walked towards me. Then placed my hand in the plate suggesting me to eat on my own and found his way back. When my mom returned back from kitchen, he made sure she fed him. This scene connected all the dots.
I have noticed a lot of such emotions from kids, off late. Kids are very pure from heart. So for sure, this emotion what they have can't be adulterated"
Heard people say 'Possessiveness will ruin any relationship, it is an act of not trusting the other person'. But, not really. A little fear/possessiveness means you do care. The respect what you show on someone you love, the understanding what you have on someone you want to be with, the care what you take on someone you adore, the love what you have on someone special may eventually turn out to be possessiveness. Nonetheless, too much of anything is good for nothing :)
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